When thinking about dating and relationships, there is a lot of focus on your spouse. Nonetheless, it's important to not forget to take care of yourself, as well! What better way to take care of yourself, than to take yourself on a solo date?
There are a million reasons why you might be not able to go out on a date. Even if you live with a significant other, a little me time is always a fantastic idea, particularly if you're feeling cooped up. Thus make a night of it, and take yourself on a date.
Below are a few strategies and ideas for making the most of your me-time!
Disconnection
Spending time on your own means carving out some private moment! Switch off your phone, allow important men and women understand that you're going off the grid, and ask your family or roommates for some private time and personal space. If you reside in a little area with other people, asking beforehand and scheduling a while is a great plan.
Ambience
Light some candles, burn some incense and play with some soothing music to change your space up with some ambience. It's time to relax that hot body of yoursand atmosphere is everything. Setting the tone for your night is just as crucial as carving out time for you, so draw those blinds, pull out those candles, and then get down on your own!
Relaxation
Easier said than done, I know. A big portion of relaxing your mind is relaxing your entire body, so spend some time to work on those sore muscles. Give yourself a massage, do some relaxing yoga, or stretch it out. Get out the arinica and tiger balm if you need more help: both are excellent aids for relaxing muscles. Pro-tip: If you've got a magic wand, then try ACTUALLY utilizing it as a back massager! You never would have thought it, but it really works great on different elements of the human body.
Treat yourself.
Do something nice for yourself!
Go out and buy some flowers, splurge on ice cream, perhaps only get a nicer brand of pasta than you usually purchase. If you're strapped for cash, up-cycle what you already have. Make yourself a nice robe from an old sweater, wrap yourself on your nicest towel, pour that glass of wine, or take a little extra time when preparing your dinner. Bear in mind that spending time working on you, is a treat in and of itself. Anything you can do to make the night special is welcome.
Do your favorite thing.
Whether it is reading a book, going for a walk, watching crap tv, or having a wine and paint night, tonight's the night to do something you really enjoy. Taking yourself on a date means that you and you get to determine what's on the agenda. So don't have any shame and do what makes you happy. If you are at a loss for ideas, then think about what you would want to do on a date with someone else, and go do it solo! Wining and dining is always a fantastic idea, especially in the comfort of your own home.
Have a spa night.
My favourite solo date night is to have a solo spa night. It is totally free, relaxing and if you do not have a lot of private space, you always have the option to lock that bathroom door. Draw yourself a hot bath or a hot shower and exude that hot bod. Use your fanciest soap, then take some time with that loofa, and pull out that tub bomb if you have got it. You may make a super cheap sugar scrub from scratch if you don't have anything particular. If you would like to bring it to another level, look up a youtube tutorial and do yourself manicure or pedicure. Cover yourself in lotion. Put on that sheet mask. This is your night to pamper your favourite person: you!
Journal.
Take some time to check in with you, by writing down your feelings. If you are at a loss for words, try writing Feniks Uwodzenie a list of all the things you like on your own, or a love note addressed to youpersonally. It may sound hokey, but placing some positivity and self enjoy writing is a great way to affirm all the things you want about your hot date.
Masturbate.
A solo date should always end in certain solo love. Whether you went out to the world, or remained at home for a relaxing night in, take a while to delight yourself and your sexy bod. Try out your favorite toys, use lots of lube and get out that additional special vibrator, because tonight is the night you pull out all the stops. Honestly, only masturbating for hours is a perfectly respectable solo date!